I’ve studied over 200 kids—if you teach your child ‘just one skill’ in life, make it this: ‘It’s non-negotiable’ for me

As parents, we spend so much time helping our kids succeed on the outside — teaching them words, setting routines, and encouraging good behavior. But there’s one skill that quietly shapes whether they’ll be successful in life: self-connection, or the ability to tune into one’s own emotions, needs, and inner voice. When kids feel safe…

I tried Denmark’s No. 1 secret to happiness for a year. It truly changed my life—and even made me more confident

For over four years, I’ve been a professor at Emory University’s Goizueta Business School. Before that, I worked in the corporate world at organizations like Coca-Cola and IBM.  Recently, for work, I went to Denmark, one of the world’s happiest countries, to teach a course called “Happiness Blueprint.” While there, I discovered what many had…

Cardiologist: 5 foods I’ll never feed my kids after 20 years of treating heart disease—’I’ve seen the damage’ they can do

As a cardiologist who has treated heart attacks for more than 20 years, I’ve seen how eating habits formed in childhood can often lay the groundwork for chronic illness in adulthood. My wife and I have three daughters, now in high school. I know how hard it can be during the early years just to…

Use the ‘80-10-10’ rule to know if you’ve found the right house, says real estate agent of 10 years

As a real estate broker of 10 years, working with clients whose budgets range from $300,000 to $3 million, I can confidently say that there is no perfect house. Many buyers begin their home search with a long list of “must-haves” and “nice-to-haves.” This is a great starting point, but you can quickly get stuck…

I studied 400 highly successful leaders—5 skills you need to sharpen in the age of AI: Stanford expert

The rapid advancement of AI is reshaping industries, redefining job roles, and making adaptability more critical than ever. The question isn’t whether it will impact your career, but how you can prepare yourself to thrive in this evolving landscape. As a lecturer at Stanford Graduate School of Business and the author of “The Systems Leader,”…

I’ve studied over 200 kids—parents who have an easy time getting their child to listen never use these 5 ‘toxic’ phrases

Parents know all too well what it’s like to deal with a kid who refuses to listen: It’s frustrating. But after years of studying over 200 parent-child relationships, I’ve noticed something fascinating: Parents who rarely deal with defiance don’t make threats, bribes or harsh consequences. They use language that makes children actually want to cooperate. Traditional parenting phrases…

I supercommute five hours door-to-door from Los Angeles to San Francisco: It’s ‘one of the best career decisions I’ve made’

My commute might look pretty unusual to most people: I usually catch a 7 a.m. flight from Los Angeles to San Francisco every Wednesday and fly home every Friday night — traveling about five hours door-to-door each way. I never planned on becoming a supercommuter. But an unexpected conversation turned into a job offer, and…

I’ve spent 10 years studying parents of highly successful kids—5 things they do differently: ‘It’s not just hard work and grit’

I’ve always been fascinated by families whose children seem to be on some kind of unusual streak, reaching the top of their career ladders, or, even more interesting to me, blazing trails or following their passions with spectacular results. What did their parents do differently to empower them? What do researchers really know about what’s…

There are just 5 ‘simple’ parenting rules for raising highly successful kids, says psychiatrist who worked with 3,000 young adults

Parenting advice has gotten really complicated. There’s something new every day, and it’s filled with contradictions. Every time you think you understand something, it changes. All of this is a huge source of anxiety for many parents. As a psychiatrist on the front lines of healthy youth development, I’ve worked with over 3,000 young adults….