How to read people better: 7 simple psychology-backed ways
We meet and talk to different people every day– at work, outside, or at home. While words carry part of the message, a lot of what someone really feels is shown through their actions and behaviour. Things like body language, tone of voice, and small gestures often say much more than the actual words.
Noticing these little signs doesn’t need any special training. It just takes being present, observant, and aware of what people may be expressing without saying it directly.
Here are seven simple cues that can help you understand someone better– beyond what they say out loud.
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